About me
You’ve got it all figured out
Yet it doesn’t feel that way. At 28, I had a great job, a loving and successful partner, and a daughter who was doing well.
My name is Stieneke
We had just embarked on a new adventure; living in Malaysia for a few years. We lived in wonderful luxury, enjoyed the food, and went on vacation every month. A wonderful time, and yet I felt alone. Seven years later, back in the Netherlands again, and with another healthy daughter, little had changed. I knew what I didn’t want: not always being switched on, being busy, being responsible, never having time for myself, and only being a mom. But what did I want? I had no idea. But it was time to do something.
Self-discovery
The years after the divorce were a breath of fresh air; time for myself to gather experiences and discover who I was and what I liked. A new circle of friends and other activities. Self-development courses. A whole new world opened up for me! Nature, spirituality, creativity, people… Everything brought new knowledge and new experiences. This didn’t always go smoothly. The nice thing was that I now only had myself to answer to when things didn’t go my way.
All of this brought me insight and awareness. Peace. Connection with others. A different mindset and way of life.
My transformation
At work, they noticed the change too. Every Wednesday, I gave meditations based on a wish of someone in the group. Where at first I needed half an hour to calm down before I could give a peaceful session, after two or three years I had become peace itself. People started noticing how good I looked, how radiant. They asked what I did.
I shared my stories with anyone who would listen. Stories of what I did and tried in my own time. Trainings, a variety of morning routines, and all sorts of other things. Whether or not it was “successful”, it brought a lot of joy and special experiences. Each time, I gained more insight into who I am and what makes me happy.
100% unique
I believe that life is a journey, and that we are here to discover who we truly are and what we came here to do. Everyone is different, and that’s the point; everyone is unique. When we embrace our uniqueness, our individuality, we find peace, inspiration, and joy within ourselves. Something we can then share with others. I wish that for everyone.
I built a deep bond with the people who meditated with me. Each of them has a beautiful story to share from our sessions. Most of them now see life differently. They can be more at ease with what is, feel more acceptance and live from more peace and love. If you can also trust that life will give you what you need, what you ask for… then you are truly alive!
My experience
For twenty years I worked in systems: software, data, complex transformations. Then I trained for two years in constellation work, and music and creativity came back into my life. Not the opposite of my IT background, but the other half of it. With these personal experiences and knowledge, my never-ending curiosity for new life experiences and the art of living, my widely varying interests and skills, from technical to spiritual to artistic to natural, I am a living example of how you too can become your natural self. How you too can find peace, joy, and freedom in life. And use your mind for what your heart desires. After all, I’ve walked this path myself.
Your journey
When you are 100% naturally yourself, you wish the same for others, however different they are!
By being completely your natural self, you not only feel good, you are also attuned to nature, and that brings peace and balance. You also have a direct positive influence on everyone around you. Your children, your partner, your colleagues. And let’s face it – the world could use some positivity!
This is how I work: in a safe space, without judgment, with constellations, body and music, at a pace that suits you. You decide the direction and the speed.
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